Monday 4 November 2013

Why do I keep thinking about him?

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Lil Tamika


I used to be friends with a guy who I thought was very nice and all but then he started to hint that I was ugly or I'm guessing 'cause it definitely seemed like he was. We were friends for about a good four months until he started indirectly hinting that I was ugly and I think he should know about the way I feel about my appearance considering that I always point out my flaws.

So, this happened a few times. One day, we were at school and I usually or mostly show up to class in a t-shirt and sweatpants because I focus on my hair and make-up more (even though its just eyeliner and mascara since the time only allows me for just this). He just suddenly says to me "I think that girls who are really girly are hot" and looks at the girls with false eyelashes and skirts...... I was like "um.... okay?" Like honestly, why would I care what other girls look like and then I thought about myself then look at them.... hmmm is he saying something that I'm ugly?

There was this boy who I had a huge crush on but I lost him to another girl so I was blaming myself that it was my looks and all he said was "well, you could be worse".......

Then another time, he just randomly comes out of no where ad sad that I'm better off dating women. Oh, am I not good enough to be dating men?

And the last one I can remember is that we were talking about "sex" and I told him that I was a virgin, so his response was "I'm not surprised"......

Seriously, I know that I'm not the prettiest asian girl out there but I'm not the ugliest. Even if the left side if my face is higher than the other but people tell me that they don't really notice it unless I mention it and get a good look at it. But to me, I can see it clear as daylight.

In early November, I realized that it's not worth being friends with him if I'm just going to be hurt repeatedly so I started to ignored him. I blocked him from all contacts.


The ironic thing is now that it's winter break and he flew back to Hawaii (his hometown), I started to have dreams about him and every thing on TV reminds me of him. The dream consisted of Hawaii
having an earthquake and the whole state flooded..... then Spongebob came on TV and it was the episode of Squidward singing Boyz Who Cry "4-Ply when I cry", it was our favorite episode.... Is this just a coincidence or a sign of something? Do I miss him? Why would I miss someone who hurts me?



Answer
Hmm...well you know what they say.opposites attract.what he did and say to you was hurtful and crude but maybe he likes you if you really look at it.the most meanest and crudest boy can also be the most sweetest too.some boys express there feelings in a total different way.maybe his way of telling you he likes you is that saying your ugly and he's not surprised your a virgin.don't compare yourself to other girls either.your special and beautiful in your own way(: everyone is different and has there own special talents.there has to be something that you can do that the other girls can't!back onto this boy...maybe you don't know it but deep down your maybe attracted to this boy and the way he acts and your starting to think about him because you were drawn in by the way he "presented" himself to you.maybe there's something about him that you like and you may not even know it so your starting to think about him because...believe it or not but you like him back!actually in some romances this is how it usually is.the girl is attracted to the boy that she hated at first but thens ends up falling in love with him in the end and he ends up being so sweet to you.hope this helped!(: good luck!

Why do I keep thinking about him?




Lil Tamika


I used to be friends with a guy who I thought was very nice and all but then he started to hint that I was ugly or I'm guessing 'cause it definitely seemed like he was. We were friends for about a good four months until he started indirectly hinting that I was ugly and I think he should know about the way I feel about my appearance considering that I always point out my flaws.

So, this happened a few times. One day, we were at school and I usually or mostly show up to class in a t-shirt and sweatpants because I focus on my hair and make-up more (even though its just eyeliner and mascara since the time only allows me for just this). He just suddenly says to me "I think that girls who are really girly are hot" and looks at the girls with false eyelashes and skirts...... I was like "um.... okay?" Like honestly, why would I care what other girls look like and then I thought about myself then look at them.... hmmm is he saying something that I'm ugly?

There was this boy who I had a huge crush on but I lost him to another girl so I was blaming myself that it was my looks and all he said was "well, you could be worse".......

Then another time, he just randomly comes out of no where ad sad that I'm better off dating women. Oh, am I not good enough to be dating men?

And the last one I can remember is that we were talking about "sex" and I told him that I was a virgin, so his response was "I'm not surprised"......

Seriously, I know that I'm not the prettiest asian girl out there but I'm not the ugliest. Even if the left side if my face is higher than the other but people tell me that they don't really notice it unless I mention it and get a good look at it. But to me, I can see it clear as daylight.

In early November, I realized that it's not worth being friends with him if I'm just going to be hurt repeatedly so I started to ignored him. I blocked him from all contacts.


The ironic thing is now that it's winter break and he flew back to Hawaii (his hometown), I started to have dreams about him and every thing on TV reminds me of him. The dream consisted of Hawaii
having an earthquake and the whole state flooded..... then Spongebob came on TV and it was the episode of Squidward singing Boyz Who Cry "4-Ply when I cry", it was our favorite episode.... Is this just a coincidence or a sign of something? Do I miss him? Why would I miss someone who hurts me?



Answer
I did not read everything but as far as I can tell he is a total dickhead. You are really pretty seeing from your picture even prettier than anything walking around here.
Conclusion: He is not worth you.




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